Mad over silly things

[starbuck]

Valentine's Day is the lamest holiday ever. All it ever seems to do is cause single people to feel bad and couples to fight. All so companies can sell more flowers and candy.

Sorry, that's my rant. Yeah, he's overreacting a bit, but the holiday makes people act freaky IMO. Maybe a compromise would be best.

[CAM]

can somebody please explain to me what is up with all these stories of angry guys getting all bent out of shape for small shit and being jealous controlling abusive little pricks?

My guess is that the real story here is why they broke up to begin with...possibly, she's always calling the shots and he got tired of it. And, they got back together with her trying to avoid controlling behavior and he trying to believe that she won't be controlling and then...well, she starts calling the shots again.

Truth be told, access to men or women (for either sex) is no longer reserved to dating. Work puts us in contact all day long and we see the best and worst of each other. So, when we get to the social relationship, we are often weary of each other (a gender-based weariness) due to over-exposure. Men used to be more mysterious to women because they didn't see them all day long and vice-versa...now, the blush is off the rose, so to speak. Just a reality of modern life.

[Gigabitch]

And FYI, I have never cheated on him. We broke up the first time because HE didn't want to be with me anymore.

Well, maybe he feels that he needs daily contact to maintain his attachment to you.

[buih1001]

i think he's being over sensitive and over insecure... if you really care for him a lot, then you got to tolerate him for all his moment of weakness ...