Date with a Turkish guy

**Petit Papillon** · 13-02-09, 09:26 PM

Don't want to generalize them but I tell my experience

Well I've heard many stories about how they are.And I wasn't interested in even a contact with them.But Once I've met one,from security team in a club.I was 15 then.And he was pretty nice to me.he always kept eye on me so when someone was disturbing me,he took him away

I liked him,cause he seemed to be just friendly to me.Till one year later i was at the club with my brother and his gf and i was pretty drunk,but not unconscious.After party I wanted to go home but my brother was still willing to have a drink so I decided to go home alone.It was already morning and I've met this turkish guy in front of a bakery.He invited me to have a coffee there and said he will drive me home after.Of course I didn't want to come home alone with him and I said ok but we take my brother and his gf with us.So we did. And then we drove home.My brother went to house and I stayed little bit with the guy just to talk.YEAH RIGHT .He started to kiss me and it was pretty sure he wanted to have sex LOL I pushed him back and said wtf? And he said"isn't it enough romantic?It's sunrise" I looked at him like at an idiot and said eee no ,and then I just went home.I've never talked to him anymore.
the final point is that most of them play nice guys ,but they want just one thing .Well at least in Germany.
Jesus...when I imagine that I would lose my virginity with him it makes me VOMIT.yuuk

**vashti** · 13-02-09, 09:37 PM

Yes, but pettit - that experience wasn't because he was Turkish - it was because he was male.

**Petit Papillon** · 13-02-09, 09:43 PM

Originally Posted by vashti

Yes, but pettit - that experience wasn't because he was Turkish - it was because he was male.

Well I don't know... I've spent here some time ,and they really have bad opinion about how they seduce european women...It's rare to hear something good about it.

**Tiay** · 13-02-09, 10:00 PM

Originally Posted by vashti

Yes, but pettit - that experience wasn't because he was Turkish - it was because he was male.

yeah true, but pettit does have a point.. there's a cultural difference in the art of wooing.

Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon

Well I don't know... I've spent here some time ,and they really have bad opinion about how they seduce european women...It's rare to hear something good about it.

Well so far this guy is being good. We did kiss good night briefly, but he was super shy about it.

**Petit Papillon** · 13-02-09, 10:40 PM

Originally Posted by Tiay

yeah true, but pettit does have a point.. there's a cultural difference in the art of wooing.

Well so far this guy is being good. We did kiss good night briefly, but he was super shy about it.

Once my friend said that his friend was able to cry in front of a girl to make her belive he wasn't cheating on her,and of course he was

don't put pink glasses on.Just be carefull.

**vashti** · 13-02-09, 10:59 PM

Originally Posted by Tiay

yeah true, but pettit does have a point.. there's a cultural difference in the art of wooing.

That's true, but that doesn't mean non-Turkish males aren't trying to get in your pants. They have different styles, but they are ALL wanting in.

I will say that there is a weird, archaic obsession with virginity in that part of the world.

**Petit Papillon** · 13-02-09, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by vashti

That's true, but that doesn't mean non-Turkish males aren't trying to get in your pants. They have different styles, but they are ALL wanting in.

I will say that there is a weird, archaic obsession with virginity in that part of the world.

You're talking about Europe? Well I don't think that losing virginity with first guy met on a party is a best way to feel good? Not even virginity.I mean sex should be a part of a relationship based on some feelings.I don't belive in one night stands.The fact that I've lost my virginity at age 18 means that before I didn't meet a guy with whom I wanted to do this.

**vashti** · 13-02-09, 11:16 PM

Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon

You're talking about Europe?

No, no - I meant the middle east. (And yes, I know Turkey wants to consider themselves European).

And of course you shouldn't sleep with a guy (European, Turkish, American, or otherwise) just because he wants to. Good for you for stopping him.

**Petit Papillon** · 13-02-09, 11:26 PM

Little missunderstood

Well I think that if a drunk person doesn't want to do something, is able to say no.That's why I think an excuse that someone has cheated on other because he/she was drunk is a BS.

**DoesntMatter** · 13-02-09, 11:48 PM

Originally Posted by vashti

I will say that there is a weird, archaic obsession with virginity in that part of the world.

Likewise in the US and Europe, except its treated as a disease

**Junket** · 14-02-09, 04:40 AM

Virginity is gay.

**Tiay** · 14-02-09, 05:09 AM

Originally Posted by vashti

That's true, but that doesn't mean non-Turkish males aren't trying to get in your pants. They have different styles, but they are ALL wanting in.

I will say that there is a weird, archaic obsession with virginity in that part of the world.

ha yeah obsessions with virginity are not healthy. Today when I was leaving the gym he gave me a rose and we kissed briefly and said goodbye (I'm going to germany for 5 days tomorrow) and I think this actually gave him a hard on. Poor guy...

**Indignant** · 14-02-09, 05:11 AM

Originally Posted by Tiay

ha yeah obsessions with virginity are not healthy. Today when I was leaving the gym he gave me a rose and we kissed briefly and said goodbye (I'm going to germany for 5 days tomorrow) and I think this actually gave him a hard on. Poor guy...

oh no you didn't say poor guy!!!!! that is so demeaning and humiliating!

**vashti** · 14-02-09, 05:12 AM

Originally Posted by Tiay

ha yeah obsessions with virginity are not healthy. Today when I was leaving the gym he gave me a rose and we kissed briefly and said goodbye (I'm going to germany for 5 days tomorrow) and I think this actually gave him a hard on. Poor guy...

That's kind of cute!

**elle** · 14-02-09, 05:20 AM

See! I was right!! all turkish guys want is sex! And no ,they aren't european they are arabic monkeys!

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