Well one of his friends who I have met once and we seemed to get on (he was there) contacted me via facebook and asked if I wanted to come out on her birthday. Didn't really know what to do and didn't want to just snub her and also I ain't really got much in the way of female friends, so I replied and said thanks for the invite but not sure if my ex would be happy if I came along assuming he's going too but maybe we could get together some other time. Big mistake it looks like. She contacted him right away, turns out she didn't know we were finished until I said so, and asked him to go out for a drink. She hasn't shown no interest in meeting either of us since we met that new years eve. Now I remember that me and the ex had also fallen out 2 days prior and he had told her we were over then after not seeing her all of the time we'd been together and that was from August, and she had suggested she come over on NYE. As it happened me and ex made up that time so I came along to the NYE thing just the 3 of us at his house.
Anyway this prompted yet another abusive phone call him saying how dare I contact his friends she's his friend not mine and if I ever 'mess' with his friends again he's going to tell em this and that about me.
When we were together my ex didn't want me to have friends like I've said before he made it difficult and caused a huge fuss when I tried to make new friends on the Internet. Instead he told me that I could have his female friends and told 3 of them to put me on their facebook. He said he wanted me to be friends with the one I met on NYE but when I suggested meeting up for badminton to her he went mad later on about it saying I was trying to arrange it on 'our time'.
Anyway firstly I have to wonder whether she has any designs on him herself (good luck to her) though she has a bf who she lives with apparently she aint happy with him and they live pretty much separate lives. But aside from that it seems I might be better off cutting all ties not just with him but with the 3 friends that I've got on my facebook as it seems it'll give him an excuse to keep abusing me if I try to keep any sort of contact with them and they are going to keep reporting back to him. Also since they are his friends and will get all his side of the story I feel uncomfortable with having them on my facebook, like I don't want to write things on my facebook or do anything on there anymore as I don't want him to know anything about my life anymore. Plus what happens when I meet someone else I'd be reluctant to show anything on there as it would probably get back to him and prompt more mentalist reaction from him.
So should I just delete them from my facebook with no explanation and let them think I'm being funny with them or should I write and try and explain that I just need to cut all ties from him, which could make things worse as they may report back to the ex anything I write?