Well, blimey that was a long time ago! Firstly though, just so you know, I didn't let anything happen between us while I was still with my other boyfriend. I definitely made sure I sorted things out and made sure he was ok before I let anything happen.
It's six years since we started chatting, and 5.5 years since we got together! I was young and naive back then. He was sweet to me, my boyfriend at the time was out a lot and didn't pay me very many compliments so it was nice to have someone who seemed to appreciate me, and that was hard to resist at the time. I don't regret the decision at all, we've had a very loving and happy relationship and I would never change that for anything, even though I'm hurting right now, it was all worth it.