Well, it really depends on who the "girl of your dreams" is ... There has to be a balance. But don't expect a girl to come running after you. You have to get your foot in the door by meeting and talking to women ... If your charm is right, then there isn't much you have to chance ...
From what I've noticed, women are more likely to go for "equal or lesser value" than men are.
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."