ok im new here so please be gentle..... but the problem is i have been with my man for 3 years and we broke up 7 months ago for 8 weeks but i saw him a couple of times in that.... i love my bf but when we were apart i met someone else whom i was seeing for that 8 weeks i knew he had a gf and we got really close... now im back with my man i cant stop thinking bout this guy but i know he has a gf and he has been with her 2 years... he tells me he feels the same but how do i know he just doesnt want me for sex????? x