I Finally Had the Ballz to Ask

[Raze]

Hey all, I just joined to the site, so be sure to read my introduction if you have some time in which you're really bored. =P

After a bad breakup and many failed dates, I decided to join a dating site and I have had wonderful success. I met a great girl I think. I met her on this dating site, but I don't want to advertise it so I'll keep it a secret. lol. So we met about 2 months ago and we both said that we would start dating during the summer because that's when we don't have school work because we're both in college. We've been webcamming, texting, chatting online everyday during the past 2 months. She says she's excited to see me, I'm really nervous though. We haven't met face to face yet, but we talk on webcam a lot.

We're meeting for coffee tomorrow and we're going to shop together because I like looking around stores even if I don't want to buy anything. We might possibly go out for something to eat. I'm not really sure.

I would really like some advice on how to handle it. I always get really nervous before dates. Also, I'm not sure if I should kiss her or not even though I'll probably really want to kiss her at the end of the date. Any advice would be appreciated about first dates. After my breakup, I've had a lot of bad dates. uuugghhh.

[emma1234]

Just be yourself
And if she wants to kiss you after.. You will know,

[Juristhea]

Hey all, I just joined to the site, so be sure to read my introduction if you have some time in which you're really bored. =P

After a bad breakup and many failed dates, I decided to join a dating site and I have had wonderful success. I met a great girl I think. I met her on this dating site, but I don't want to advertise it so I'll keep it a secret. lol. So we met about 2 months ago and we both said that we would start dating during the summer because that's when we don't have school work because we're both in college. We've been webcamming, texting, chatting online everyday during the past 2 months. She says she's excited to see me, I'm really nervous though. We haven't met face to face yet, but we talk on webcam a lot.

We're meeting for coffee tomorrow and we're going to shop together because I like looking around stores even if I don't want to buy anything. We might possibly go out for something to eat. I'm not really sure.

I would really like some advice on how to handle it. I always get really nervous before dates. Also, I'm not sure if I should kiss her or not even though I'll probably really want to kiss her at the end of the date. Any advice would be appreciated about first dates. After my breakup, I've had a lot of bad dates. uuugghhh.

Ooh I love it when romance is trying to bloom out of the most unexpected moments of our lives.

Just be yourself when you are with her and don't think too much about the things that will happen. Just be spontaneous and take things from there. You will know when she wants to kiss you. It's in the signs. *winks*

[Raze]

Thanks ladies. =) It actually went very very well. We ended up spending the entire afternoon and part of the night together. We kissed on the lips at the end of the date and cuddled. It went very well. Thank you for your advice, it helped so much, and I will post more questions as the relationship progresses deeper.