Conpletely confused

[Aeon666]

Okay so I have been with my girlfriend since almost nine months, and i would say our relationship has known better but is still going ok, though we had a really big fight a little while ago. The thing is, today at a concert i met this girl who seemed really interested in me and played the same instrument as me. We talked a lot and I must admit she was not leaving me uninterested. She clearly was giving me signs that she was interested in me, and we took the metro together after the concert.Just by the way she was looking at me it was clear that she wanted us to kiss but i did not go further, but i gave her my email because she needed to know where was the next concert next friday. Now I am completely confused because i love my girlfriend and i really don't know what i should think now. The thing is my girlfriend is italian and her family is controlling her a lot,and we dont see each other much these times due to her being grounded and whatever, and its been almost 9 months we've been together and we've never been farther than kissing. Also I have a feeling that our relationship is going nowhere but I DO love her still. Please give me your opinion on my problem!! I really am confused itensely there and i really don't know whats right and wrong anymore. Thanks.

[Aeon666]

Thanks for the reply, thats something i realized, but i still love her and still don't know what i should think.

[Yggdrasil]

Your life, your choice, make one, stick to it. That's how it works.

Having to make choices like that is part of maturing.

[dereknaut]

mabey you and your g.f should take a break and see other people.

[zombie_loo89]

The thing is my girlfriend is italian and her family is controlling her a lot,and we dont see each other much these times due to her being grounded and whatever,

ahhh my girlfriend is italian too!!! her parents give her no freedom. if you aren't happy with the pace your relationship is going with your girlfriend you need to talk to her about it. is there any reason why you haven't gone further then kissing?

[Aeon666]

ahhh my girlfriend is italian too!!! her parents give her no freedom. if you aren't happy with the pace your relationship is going with your girlfriend you need to talk to her about it. is there any reason why you haven't gone further then kissing?

Initially she said that she doesn't want to go further until we get married...I was and still hoping that she's gonna change her mind on that issue.

[Yggdrasil]

Initially she said that she doesn't want to go further until we get married...I was and still hoping that she's gonna change her mind on that issue.

You can hope, but she sets the pace

[Volk]

Why waste what you've built with the original girl?
Isn't love worth holding out until she can move out/college

[vashti]

How old are you? You sound like a high school kid, so I am going to go with that assumption.

It is normal to be attracted to multiple people at the same time, especially for young males. This is why it is often better to avoid having exclusive relationships in high school, and focus instead on dating multiple girls casually (but maintaining honesty about the lack of commitment.) You kids cheat yourselves out of a lot of learning by skipping out on the less serious forms of dating.