I love meeting "nice men" who talk themselves to the sky about how "nice" they are, and how no women love them. Poor you baby, maybe you'll meet some nice girl who will give you a pity ****, but what you're telling me when you play the world's smallest violin is you have a deep rooted issue, that women pick up on and dump you.
You're not nice. You're insecure. For whatever bloody reason, but you thinking you're nice is just an internal smoke screen so you don't have to deal with what's really wrong with you.
Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
-Lily Tomlin