Please help me.

[Mish]

I just dont want to think that she was throwing it about and there are men about there talking about what they have done with her and things.

So the real issue is, you feel jealous of men she slept with and what these men might be telling their friends about the sex they had with her? Is that the thing that's torturing you and keeping you awake at night?

[SAVANAH]

This so petty, look at the good you two have and share, you think it doesn't take alot from to marry a man with two kids from another woman?
Thats what she has to live with... another woman always being in the picture always, forever!
It's not every girl that would even consider living like that, and you complaining about her past, you are the one with the baggage here not her AT ALL.
Be grateful and appreciate the fact the she loves you the way she does, be grateful that she has accepted you 'other family'

I don't understand you really and I honestly hope you open your eyes, before she opens her eyes and realises what a selfish man she's about to COMMIT THE REST OF HER LIFE TO.

You've got her, she doesn't want any of those 8 men, she wants you, the one with the most baggage.

Fix this problem before it's too late, you clearly love and care about her but sometimes that's not enough esp when there's such issues at hand.

Nevermind the amount of guys she's been with, she was safe and hasn't got any baggage, can't say the same for you,so in actual fact she should be worried about you!

Get over yourselve please

If you ask me you've got a really special lady don't lose her because of your insecurities and issues....

I really hope you treating her right really, cause from the sounds of things she deserves better.

I don't mean to be harsh but all we want is for you to open your eyes and get help if you can't cope, before things blow up in your face and live a life pf regret...

It's not going to easy replacing her. that's all I can say

[whaywardj]

...Sonia or whatever your name is, who cares how many cocks you've had, dont think you should be bragging slut!

Well. Not only are you being a self-absorbed child about this woman, but you're also being an offensive asshole to women in general. Five will get you ten that before too much more time passes you'll come to a sobering realization that you don't really like women at all and are gay.

[rangersman]

Mishanya thats true what you just wrote. I know what my pals say about woman they have slept with and never is it good and then next thing you know 20-30 people think the same way because of what they have said.
Thing is in my life the worst thing anyone could say to you is 'I used to shag your wife' or 'my mate used to shag your wife'. Everyone believes different things about sex but because sex is so casual to some people thats why there are diseases and single mums and abortions and things.
Im not some goody goody or niave man, I just think differently to people.
Tell me one person on here who could handle closing there eyes and see 8 different bodies doing things to their soulmate and take it,coz I cant! I have been through alot in my life but this is the worst thing ever!
Some might say childish, some might say they understand, at the end of the day all I want is for someone who has got through it to say 'dude, all you have to do is.........' and then I can go on and live my life and not think if I was dead Id be released of all this torturing pain!

[vashti]

I repeat:

You obviously can't marry someone whose past you can't come to terms with. I don't really think you need a shrink to tell you that - it's common sense. And personally, I don't really see any good reason why you shouldn't have a problem with her past. You are allowed to have a different set of moral standards than she has. You just aren't allowed to torture her over your differences in values for the rest of her life.

Maybe you just need to come to terms with the fact that at this point in time, you aren't going to be able to overlook this, and need to muster up the courage/energy to take appropriate action.

[Yggdrasil]

I dunno, Giga. Pinning his eyelids open and making him watch video loops of his gf screamingly ****ing her eyes out with (big, black?) men might push him over the edge and we might end up with a serial sniper on our hands.

You got that from 'a clockwork orange' didn't you

[whaywardj]

You got that from 'a clockwork orange' didn't you

What are you? Physic?

(Dysexlics Untie!)

[Yggdrasil]

What are you? Physic?

(Dysexlics Untie!)

Yeah, scary eh?

No I extrapolated. Of course I could have been wrong but there was a very high probability.