I need your advice....

[Yggdrasil]

It WILL get better. Give yourself time and be gentle to yourself.

For yourself, don't make the mistake to try to ease the pain by running back to him or find comfort in the arms of another man. It will bring you nothing but a rebound.

I hope that makes sense to you.

You just have to hang in there and allow those feelings of hurt and pain to be experienced. They WILL go away in time.

[peach]

He's going out with someone tomorrow....It's hurting me so much.....

[Yggdrasil]

He's going out with someone tomorrow....It's hurting me so much.....

Don't worrie about him. What he does is his problem.

Focus on yourself and break all contact with him. Block his number, remove him from MSN etc. All he's doing is emotionaly terrorizing you.

[peach]

All he's doing is emotionally terrorizing you.

Really..? yeah I think so...as if he likes me to ask him not to do it...

Don't worrie about him. What he does is his problem.

Even If I love him so much....? I remember him wherever I go..what ever I do...

[Yggdrasil]

Even If I love him so much....? I remember him wherever I go..what ever I do...

That will pass.. You have to give yourself time and try to think about other things. He's in your mind, that means he has power over you.

There was a time you were completely happy without him. Remember that time?

You don't need him. You never did.

[peach]

Okay...... I want to sleep now... thanks a lot.. I really really appreciate everything.....

[Rollerderby]

Also, if he really loved you, do you think he would do that? He's just trying to make you feel like shit and it's working.

You didn't do anything wrong. He did. But it's funny how the emotionally abusive and manipulative always seem to make you feel in the wrong, isn't it? I've been there and done that and it sucks a lot, but the TRUTH is, he was/is draining the life out of you.

Who is more important to you, you or him? Forget all that romeo juliet, die for the one you love bullshit. This was never love. You gotta take care of yourself. You are the most important person in your life.

[IndiReloaded]

I have not experienced this before...I always do it the short cut way..if you know what I mean..but it did not do me any good..as you said I always end up falling for the wrong guys......I feel like dying every minute...Ooh two months....

Aah....I want to thank you all...IndiReloaded, Rollerderby, Icej2k
and especially Yggdrasil...for giving me valuable pieces of advice...

You're a good girl, doll. Hang in there. Post here to vent if it makes you feel better. We'll listen. Ygg is right, you'll be okay just give it time.

[peach]

Hi!
Just want to thank everyone again...... I love you All....



I feel much better now...than few days ago.....
I'll Join mountain climbing this Saturday and will play Badminton on Sunday ... Yipeeeeee

I still feel sad and at times cry Soooo Loud hehehe....but whenever I have those moments...I visit this site then read, read and read your advice.....


Peach

[IndiReloaded]

.
I'll Join mountain climbing this Saturday and will play Badminton on Sunday ... Yipeeeeee

I still feel sad and at times cry Soooo Loud hehehe....but whenever I have those moments...I visit this site then read, read and read your advice.....

Sounds like a lot of fun, Peach. Have a great weekend!

[Yggdrasil]

I feel much better now...than few days ago.....
I still feel sad and at times cry Soooo Loud hehehe....but whenever I have those moments...I visit this site then read, read and read your advice.....

I'm glad to hear you are feeling better. As time passes, you'll feel better and better.

Making the decission leaving a unhealthy relation and taking your life in your own hands is never easy to do and is accompanied with feelings of hurt and regret. It's ok to acknowledge those feelings and cry about them. That's how you cope with those feelings and it's perfectly normal.

One important thing to remember through all this is that you are empowering yourself, and you will come out of all this so much stronger, with a renewed sense of self worth and confidence.

I am very proud of you that you have found the courage and strenght to do so, and you should feel proud of yourself to.

Enjoy all the outdoor activities you have planned and maybe throw yourself a little party to congratulate yourself for being so strong. You deserve it!