if you're unsure of your size

[Enigmos]

hey guys... just a question (or two) to pose out there...

do you guys really compare the size of your member? do you really care? and if so, and you're insecure about how you rate, does this make you less interested in sex?

i truly believe the biggest sex organ is the brain. i only want to be with my guy, but i think he is insecure about his sexuality.

[Yggdrasil]

[Illusional]

that chart does me well then... i'm just a tad bit above average being 6.00002 inches long.

raverboy

[bud2075]

Actually this topic was what brought me to this board,which has been very helpful.My wife(we are currently separated, had alot of issues with the fact that my penis was much smaller than any of her previous lovers..I think in the begining it was fun for her and she knew that i was a virgin,she loved to be in control...but after a while the size issue became a problem that we couldnt overcome,and I found out that she had been having a relationship with her ex...(thus ending our relationship)...But to be honest having a small penis really has affected me in many differnt ways..ie: less confident,feeling like less of a man,and even feeling unsure of myself in social situations...luckily several members of this forum have made me feel alot better about myself,for which I am very grateful...thanks

[Yggdrasil]

It's not about size, it's what you do with it

[Petit Papillon]

Can somebody translate it into cm ?

[Yggdrasil]

Can somebody translate it into cm ?

1 inch = 2.54 centimeters

[url]http://www.manuelsweb.com/in_cm.htm[/url] < converter.

BTW: the reason I post that chart is because according to studies, most guys fall in the average (normal) yet for some reason they think they are small.

No clue why they think that way.

[Petit Papillon]

1 inch = 2.54 centimeters

[url]http://www.manuelsweb.com/in_cm.htm[/url] < converter.

BTW: the reason I post that chart is because according to studies, most guys fall in the average (normal) yet for some reason they think they are small.

No clue why they think that way.

Wow ok I already know what I wanted to know lucky me hehehehe

[bud2075]

Its pretty funny,my wife was always one to point out what the "average" size was and that I was well under that...Finally I just said "than I guess your stuck with it,and maybe you should have thought about it before you said yes to my proposal"...I really think it was more her problem,and that she was just trying to justify her affair,by making it all about that stupid issue.....My counselor agrees with that ....haha ...I hear that they recently split up,and she tried calling 2 weeks ago,but no way am I going back into that mess...I wish her good luck,and thats it...

[WHUDAFUXUP]

well i definitely think having a penis that is above average like 7-9 helps if you are really into kinky stuff and awkward positions so it doesn't slide out, anything bigger is like ehhh unless that chick is some freaky size queen. 4-6 is not an issue really, like other posts have pointed out people compensate in different ways and really know how to put the right motion in the right location and get the girl going nuts.

A micro penis is a no win situation though. To be honest.

But I don't think you can really judge someone harshly for something they didn't choose. Not like before we came out the womb we went to some inventory warehouse and say yeah definitely feeling the 2incher. or yep I think 12inchs is a good mid point.

[Gigabitch]

...I wish her good luck,and thats it...

You're really generous. I think she was wicked mean and I would hate her.

[Enigmos]

well, as i stated before, i don't care about his penis so much as i care about how he touches me. also, like someone said, it's what you do with it that counts. agree 110%.

but how to get over the insecurities? i remember the first time we got together, he wanted to do it in the dark. i asked him if he was insecure, and he said, "yes." now, mind you, i'm not a big boobed woman. i'm height weight proportional, and i'm in shape, but i'm also an A cup. i don't apologize for it; i've worked hard to have the body i have. i'm not ashamed. but sometimes, i think he is not sure of his sexuality, and i've told him that my body is his private playground. i don't know what else i can do?

[Yggdrasil]

but how to get over the insecurities?

He has to get over his own insecurities. That means learning to accept what is and understand that it's enough to satisfy you.

You can gently, very gently, encourage him to gain more confidence there by doing things like for example saying: oh that feels so good (when he's pumping).

I hope you get the idea.

[Rob26]

Males never discuss their penis size with other males! At least that has been my own personal experience.

[lastwish]

The only time I would care about penis size is when we've broken up because he was an ass (in which case, I will use it as one of my many reasons why I will never go back)