Okay so my ex of now 1 and a half month has been completely impossible to understand. He has done things that completelly collide with others. For example, when i hug him he will kinda whine and move away, but when i walk away he will come after me and bring me back next to him. Then if i just feel like walking off by myself ill catch him running to me to drag me back. His actions completelly confuse me. He wont tell me he loves me, but he cant say his life is better without me. Does he want me to leave, or does he want me to stay? I just dont understand. I have talked about it with my friends and so far all of them, including his past exes are saying that he loves me, but he just doesnt want to commit yet. Does that make me backup? Or does it just mean i should wait? I am completelly ready to wait forever for him, while i date other people of course, but i dont want him to just run off and hide that he loves me. He actually said once that he was going to hide his emotions for me because he doesnt want it right now. But can he really hide his emotions from himself? I really love this boy and right now im trying the dont talk to him unless he talks to me first idea. Any advice on what he feels or stuff?