Originally Posted by
Cbrider
Idk, I still maintain that virginity is overrated. I lost mine to someone I have absolutely no contact or interest ever talking to, but I don't regret it. Its a choice you make, you need to stand by what you do, second guessing is history and will only cause stress.
I think its foolish from a relationship standpoint to practice abstinence because sexual compatibility is a pretty big factor in a lot of ways. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't pursue this with your boyfriend, just don't approach it with fear, it wont make the experience any better.
Some people just want it to have meaning. Sex is important in a relationship and it's being overrated, but I think it's good to want to make it count. It shows character.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.