Can someone tell me at what point a persons financial and career potential becomes meaningful to women?
And when women start becoming serious about relationships?
And if those 2 are related?
Because as a junior in college I can tell that the girls are just the same as in high school in terms of what they want, which is fun with a sexy and cool guy who is popular, incredibly social and has style. Not that there is anything wrong with this at all because if I was a girl I'd be doing the same thing
But when do they begin to care about how much money a guy makes and how successful he was with his academic career and actual career?
I'm not old enough to know, but it seems to me that they won't give a rats ass until the day they graduate from undergrad or grad school and are in a job of their own. Like with the flip of a switch they'll start considering those kinds of things
But before that, not at all. I feel like I could be a week away from getting my MD and have a residency set up and they still wouldn't care until I started bringing home one and a half grand a day
What I want from you is a little assurance about all of this. I really think girls don't care AT ALL until the day you get your MD or finish your residency
I otherwise have stopped caring about girls and such as much as biologically possible. But I want to know for the future that I'll be able to set myself up because of what I'm doing with my life right now
It's always hardest this time of year, this week before classes when all the coed intermingling, partying, loud drunken hook-ups, and relationshippy-type stuff happens and I feel left out
The last 2 years I just knocked myself out with NyQuil and melatonin because it's hard to fall asleep when people are romping around until 3am, but this year I've been fortunate enough to see beyond now and care less
But I'm still worried than when I try to get a girl after I'm a doctor that I'm gonna be on the very low end for the doctors because even most doctors will have had some notches on their bedposts and whatnot already