Ok so since I turned 16 Ive never really had problems finding girls to date. I'm now 24. Ive dated girls that I have met at school, work, from friends and all sorts of other places. The problem is after my last failed relationship im starting to realize that I make alot of comprises in my relationships. Its VERY hard to find someone with EVERYTHING you want. 2 girls ago I had a crazy and passionate/steamy relationship but we had nothing else in common yet my last girl we were so alike it was ridiculous but the passion never showed up. We were basically just friends. I think the problem is that you meet someone, start dating and then learn things down the road that you never new before that end up souring things. I was talking to friends about this and how I just feel like either true love doesn't exist and just some made up fantasy to sell books OR I just cannot find the right person. To my surprise a few of my guy friends suggested online dating and I remember a few couples that I knew that met online and they are great and some married. Some guy I work with met his "perfect wife" so he says on a dating site. However, some people talk alot of crap and look down on this. They think its for people that dont have the guts to go out and find someone or a home for desperate people or even sex addicts. Is this true? Honestly I think it may be worth trying. Im just sick of the same old game. It would be nice to be able to find someone with all the same interest and see what they are like before jumping in to anything. Also with a full time job I realize alot of people just dont have time for that "GAME" any more. What do you guys or girls think? If some of you here agree with it then how, where and what is good?