Why dont girls say hi to me first?

[Loftus]

I feel like after i meet with a girl for the first time at a party, and we have had a good time, 3-4 days later when I see her and we are both sober, she just never says hello. Yes, she will give me a glance for a couple seconds, but no smiles or anything. What is your take on this? I dont have trouble talking to girls one on one, but when she is with a group of her friend at the cafeteria for instance, it makes me really nervous.

[Primo]

It takes confidence. If she likes you, do you know how amazing it would make her feel if you went up to her and her friends at the cafeteria, sat down next to her and started talking to her?

[girl68]

Do you smile?!

[uri]

Maybe because a "Hi" could be interpreted as a first move by them. Women rarely make the first move with guys. These kind of things happen to Brad Pit types but not to normal guys like me.

Most women expect the guy to have enough courage to make the first move. That is not to say women do not approach or signal men first but I think it only happens to very good-looking or wealthy guys.

[CocoChanel]

Well duh. She's staring at you because she sees a familiar face and she's trying to remember if your the same guy she met when her vision was a blur.

Try meeting a girl when she's sober. Maybe then she will remember you