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    Quote Originally Posted by McNoodle View Post

    Someone said that given the absolute perfect conditions there is the possibility that anyone will cheat, and while that may technically be true that is not a valid argument as it can be said about anything. Hell, you could say that given the absolute right conditions you could make Ghandi commit murder, but "perfect circumstances" are neither a realistic nor valid argument...
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    I don't think if some random hottie came hitting on my man, or even my friends (who are men) would they cheat. I think that cheating happens when something has been absent for a prolonged time. It can be sex, affection, appriaction, or attention. When you're not getting that at home and someone elsewhere provides it that's where one could get into trouble. And I'm not talking about just a month or so of no sex, or attention- a much longer period of time has to have elapsed.

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    I'd like to hope my husband wouldn't but that doesn't stop me from making sure he's not thrown into the path of temptation. I pretty much know where he is almost all of the time (at least I think I do) and vice versa. Out of town trip? I'm going along. Poker night? Just so happens two of the people he plays with are old friends of mine. We have very clear rules about things like giving rides home to coworkers, etc.

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    GB, sounds like you've got a handle on your man's activities there :-) You're not making sure the checkout time on his Home Depot receipt is in line with what time he got home are you? ...........I'm just sayin' :-D

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    LMAO! Primo! Come on! I don't think she is over the top. I think that is acceptable in a marriage.

    When I was with my fiancee he never went anywhere if I couldn't be invited to come along. Whether or not I accepted the invitation is a different story. But he was always where he said he would be. Most of the time I never had to ask where he was. When he got angry he would be stubborn and not tell me but once he calmed down he would tell me where he was and it was always proven true. However... it did annoy me when he asked me where I had been. LOL! But he was always good about making sure I knew where he was at all times.

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    Ha, stay married long enough and you are looking forward to the times they head off on business.

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    my boyfriend in high school was one of those people who thought it was necessary to know where i was all the time and thought he should let me know where he was and all that nonsense. after that i swore that any relationship thereafter would not be so controlling. if my bf decides to cheat than that is his problem, and if i decide to then that is mine. living with that kind of control is so much worse than the possibility of being cheated on imo. also my high school boyfriend is ironically the only guy that's cheated on me. that i know of.
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    wow...I dont worry so much about what any guy im with is up to or where he is- they have their own life and i dont get to decide where they go or who their with.
    But like you say..if they cheat thats their problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by McNoodle View Post

    Someone said that given the absolute perfect conditions there is the possibility that anyone will cheat, and while that may technically be true that is not a valid argument as it can be said about anything. Hell, you could say that given the absolute right conditions you could make Ghandi commit murder, but "perfect circumstances" are neither a realistic nor valid argument...
    You can't possibly be very old if you think the "right conditions" are unrealistic..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post

    men are capable of forming strong emotional bonds and have free will.

    Really? I didn't know that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boobaa View Post
    Really? I didn't know that.
    You'd be surprised how many young American women believe that men are nothing more than sex-craved animals in need of 'taming.' It's quite sickening.
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

    - James Allen

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