So, its Saturday morning. Work is put aside and on mental vacation for the moment. Ah, let's check our email....an invitation to join Facebook (note: already a member) from....the woman with whom I fell madly in love with seven years ago. I haven't seen what she looks like since I last spoke to her at the airport in Europe when I went to visit her. She turned out nicely. Lightened her hair a bit, which looks stupid, but otherwise...pretty much as I remembered her.
I messaged through Facebook. Why would she do this to me? Doesn't just "stir the pot"? Isn't it better to leave me alone and let me forget as much as I can forget (which isn't very much). My heart recovered a bit, to the extend that I accepted that it would never happen. I won't allow the pain to return, but she should have left me alone, wouldn't you agree?
The odd thing is that I'm teetering on the edge of the same mood I was in BEFORE I met her. Namely, a nihilistic mood of "let's return to youthful abandon" in the dating scene. Like I've said, there are many out there that want a piece of me. I've resisted doing that, reverting, because I still hear HER words of disappointment to me when she found out that I had played in my youth.
So, maybe its a sign from Above, so to speak? Maybe its a gentle reminder that I'm doing the right thing by not reverting to the old ways?
Still, in a way, I wish that she hadn't opened old wounds for me. I had forgotten so much of what was in my heart and now I'm reminded again.