I want him so bad!

[giginan]

Okay so last year I dated this super sweet boy, Tom, it only lasted a few months because we got in a fight one day and never resolved it until six months later. It was a really great relationship, I was just having a bad day that day, yelled at him for the first time, and never said sorry. =\

He dumped me and I told him I didnt care, we went our seperate ways, he stayed single for the several months, I however I started dating his friend John after our little fight we had, and dated John for the six months.
But I ended up constantly thinking about Tom, and my relationship with his friend sucked, I wanted to get back with Tom more than anything, but John wouldnt let me dump him.

But finally one day John broke it off with me, my first thought was "omg tom!"
I stayed single for two weeks though, didn't talk to Tom like I wanted, I thought it would be taboo, off limits. But three weeks after my break up with John, I talked to Tom! He said he missed me and still thought about me, I said I missed him too and wanted him back. He said we could be friends and see what happens But then I found out from a friend he already had a girlfriend. I asked him, he said they started dating just two days ago! He said the relationship really sucked already and that she didnt care at all for him.

But we kicked it off anyways, for the next few days we talked a lottt, we hung out a lot too. Finally one night we had amazing sex and made out and I was so in love =) We watched a movie and cuddled up and fell asleep together, totally forgetting about his girlfriend.
Its been a few days since that night, we still talk, but its weird now, he's still dating that girl, and he still tells me she isnt a good girlfriend and that theyre relationship is in the dumps.
It fustrates me, why doesnt he just dump that stupid girl and get back with me already? What should I do? I told him to **** off last night too though =\
I love him so much though, I didnt mean it

[giginan]

Oh and me and Toms fight was at a Mcdonalds, it was really silly, but it annoyed me how he had to think for so long and could make decisions quickly, he was taking forever to order and I yelled at him to "hurry the **** up you idiot" heh, it was the first time I cursed at him, we didnt really talk the rest of the night. I was fustrated with other stuff, one day we were out walking down the street, he said "I think we should break up" and I replied "Fine!" and walked off all childish, heh again. I was angry at the time, we didnt talk at all, I was really sorry but I didnt dare talk to him, I assumed he really hated me. So a few days later I started dating his friend like said.

[Primo]

What did Tom get at McDonalds? I have to say, personally I love Big Mac's every once in awhile. Most of the time I don't get fries with them though. The girl at the window seems a little taken aback that I don't get the meal deal.

As far as the other thing, don't let him have any more sex until he dumps the girlfriend that he doesn't care for. Tease him about what a great thing he's missing give him a peek at it through the top of your jeans, tell him how horny you are, things like that...but make sure he knows he can't have it again until he dumps her. That should bring him around.

[qwertz]

How old are you?

The whole thing sounds rather childish, and i think you and john are very low on morals....you dated his friend!!!? straight after splitting up with him!!?

And you 'stayed single for 2 weeks'..WOW that is a long time!!!

He probably just used you for sex- if he wanted you he would finish with his 'gf' of 2 days!!
I know for sure that if i was with someone and split up, and he dated my friend almost straight away then there is no chance on earth he would get a 2nd chance.

[Chupacabras]

"hurry the **** up you idiot"

And you started dating his friend. You're a bitch and I hope he grudge ****ed you.

[davidtorres]

hahaha u dated his friend? good job u slu*!

[Gigabitch]

And you started dating his friend. You're a bitch and I hope he grudge ****ed you.

Do you know what a grudge **** is, giginan? Look it up. That's you and Tom.

[moonfairy_2002]

How old are you?

The whole thing sounds rather childish, and i think you and john are very low on morals....you dated his friend!!!? straight after splitting up with him!!?

And you 'stayed single for 2 weeks'..WOW that is a long time!!!

He probably just used you for sex- if he wanted you he would finish with his 'gf' of 2 days!!
I know for sure that if i was with someone and split up, and he dated my friend almost straight away then there is no chance on earth he would get a 2nd chance.

took the words right out of my mouth

[Mish]

Its been a few days since that night, we still talk, but its weird now, he's still dating that girl, and he still tells me she isnt a good girlfriend and that theyre relationship is in the dumps.

Well if he doesn't tell you those things it would be harder to convince you to have sex with him wouldn't it? Why should he dump her when he can obviously have both you and her at the same time?

[Primo]

I'm hungry and reading this thread again didn't help...2 or 3 Big Mac's would hit the spot...Bonus part of that: if Tom and Gigi start acting up I'll be there to seperate them

[Bumble_bee]

What did Tom get at McDonalds? I have to say, personally I love Big Mac's every once in awhile. Most of the time I don't get fries with them though. The girl at the window seems a little taken aback that I don't get the meal deal.

As far as the other thing, don't let him have any more sex until he dumps the girlfriend that he doesn't care for. Tease him about what a great thing he's missing give him a peek at it through the top of your jeans, tell him how horny you are, things like that...but make sure he knows he can't have it again until he dumps her. That should bring him around.

personally I don't go for MacDonalds at all, I might grab a shake there though...

but.....yeah must be hard to move on when the guy wont let you dump him????

[Illusional]

^^^ you gotta learn to stand up for yourself and be stronger towards him.

raverboy

[all alone]

this story is so pathetic is deserves to be degraded into a mcdonalds thread.

Double quarter pounder plz, hold the cheese ( yuck, processed xp )


P.S. did you rly expect to get back w this guy after u dated his buddy for 6 months right after u broke up? ha..

[LatinoItaliano]

Okay so last year I dated this super sweet boy, Tom, it only lasted a few months because we got in a fight one day and never resolved it until six months later. It was a really great relationship, I was just having a bad day that day, yelled at him for the first time, and never said sorry. =

He dumped me and I told him I didnt care, we went our seperate ways, he stayed single for the several months, I however I started dating his friend John after our little fight we had, and dated John for the six months.
But I ended up constantly thinking about Tom, and my relationship with his friend sucked, I wanted to get back with Tom more than anything, but John wouldnt let me dump him.

But finally one day John broke it off with me, my first thought was "omg tom!"
I stayed single for two weeks though, didn't talk to Tom like I wanted, I thought it would be taboo, off limits. But three weeks after my break up with John, I talked to Tom! He said he missed me and still thought about me, I said I missed him too and wanted him back. He said we could be friends and see what happens But then I found out from a friend he already had a girlfriend. I asked him, he said they started dating just two days ago! He said the relationship really sucked already and that she didnt care at all for him.

But we kicked it off anyways, for the next few days we talked a lottt, we hung out a lot too. Finally one night we had amazing sex and made out and I was so in love =) We watched a movie and cuddled up and fell asleep together, totally forgetting about his girlfriend.
Its been a few days since that night, we still talk, but its weird now, he's still dating that girl, and he still tells me she isnt a good girlfriend and that theyre relationship is in the dumps.
It fustrates me, why doesnt he just dump that stupid girl and get back with me already? What should I do? I told him to **** off last night too though =
I love him so much though, I didnt mean it

You seem way too IMMATURE for the 'relationship business' right now. Grow up first and maybe later on you can start again.

Going by the way you talk, I'd guess you're around 13?