can they mix? as in... how do you people feel about someone loving one person with their heart but having sex with sum1 else. is that utterly and completely wrong? even if you dont love the other person, and just use em for pleausre?
can they mix? as in... how do you people feel about someone loving one person with their heart but having sex with sum1 else. is that utterly and completely wrong? even if you dont love the other person, and just use em for pleausre?
if you are 2 consenting adults there is nothing wrong with sex just for pleasure. as long as you are honest with the other person involved and not leading them on it's fine!
Im not sure if women .. I guess this is my opinion but... I dont think I could seperate the two. Sex for me, and I think most women, is emotional. Whether you believe it or not... SOMEONE gets out of bed with feelings.. what do you guys think?
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
I think it's wrong.
I agree with Jane - even if YOU can go through with it without developing feelings for the other person, chances are they cant
"When I was 4 years old, they tried to test my IQ.
They showed me this picture of 3 oranges and a
pear. They asked me which one was different and
did not belong. They taught me different was
wrong."
- Ani DiFranco -
I'm assuming that this person is getting their emotional needs from say the gf at home and getting their physical needs banging the chick at the office or something to that extent?
If it's a open relationship, then I guess there's nothing wrong, but if there's lying involved... that's never right.
=)
Yes, sex for me is closely related to the feelings i have for the person. And.. it is very wrong to love one person and f*** the other.