I asked a girl out after 2 months of knowing/flirting with her. When I say flirting I mean she would say stuff like "You should personal train me, be my personal trainer." Well, I asked her out, and she said yes before I could even finish asking her out. I take her out, I hold doors, make her smile and laugh, we even locked eyes without saying anything a few times during dinner, and I also made some funny comments during the movie (which was depressing, though). We both seemed to have a really good time, and when I drove her home she talked to me much more "freely" (without me asking questions) than when I first picked her up. I popped open some mints and took one myself, then asked her if she wanted one, she said yes. When we got to her house I asked if she wanted me to walk her to her door, and she enthusiastically says yes. I walk her to her door, and before she goes into her house she gives me a hug (I was going to leave without initiating any physical contact because I didn't want to come on too strong, and no patting either during the hug). I kinda gave her a half-assed one-armed hug, but it's not like I pushed her away or something. She asked me if I was going to be in the gym the next day, and I said yes. It seemed to me like she really liked me and wanted to see me again soon and she said she had a good time and wanted to go out again. She also agreed to work out with me today (monday), so I could show her a few things.
Well, here comes the bad news. A guy in the gym told me that she is dating another "thuggish" guy as well as me, and he told her that he was glad she went out with a nice guy (me), and that I had nothing to worry about. Well, that kinda sucked, but here's the thing that is making me extremely angry: she completely lied to me about something really trivial just today. Asked her if she wanted to hang out with my friend and I, she said she had to go to IKEA with her dad. Okay, legitimate excuse, that's cool. When I go to the gym she isn't there, text her 30 minutes after the scheduled workout time, she responds that she is still in Baltimore with her dad, fishy, but okay. When I get home I look for her Facebook so I can add her to my FL, find it, and the wall update says exactly this: "day offff gym, getting nails done & mall w/caroline. get @ meee !"
So, she spent the day with her dad, huh? So what she really did was go to the gym early without me and didn't tell me even though we had scheduled to workout together, then went out with her friend(s) but lied about it, and lied again when I texted her while in the gym by saying that she was still with her dad in. What could I have done that would make her do this? She seemed to really like me, and really enjoy our date.... I don't get it. And I AM going to confront her about it, just casually at first and ask why she did this. I really don't get it. Lying to me about something so small and trivial after ONE date? What could I have possibly done to turn her off so much out of no-where.