Should I ignore him? to make hime want me more!

**lahnnabell** · 19-12-09, 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by Gimpyrks

Since when has sending a farmville invite mean you like someone??

Apparently, since my boyfriend's recent ex (a 24 year old woman) used Farmville to make a heart-shaped symbol with a bunch of fruit trees on her farm. THEN when they broke up she altered the heart by drawing a break down the middle. I almost peed myself laughing when his sister told me this.

**killer123** · 19-12-09, 01:03 PM

well my frnd i don think its good if u want him 2 chase u coz dat wil not create a good imprsesion if u avoid him infact u shud surely him on friday coz anyways u lyk him isnt it????? dat wil help u knw him well make sure u analyse him properly wat kind of person he is whether he is really good by nature or not if u meet him dat wil only u??????my frnd tc god bless

**Goldi** · 19-12-09, 08:27 PM

ok, I will wait if he sent me another message, I will reply.

Because I can't answer him now, it is already a week since he sent me his message.
If I answered him now he will think I was thinking about him the whole week.

**starbuck** · 20-12-09, 04:58 AM

Originally Posted by lahnnabell

Apparently, since my boyfriend's recent ex (a 24 year old woman) used Farmville to make a heart-shaped symbol with a bunch of fruit trees on her farm. THEN when they broke up she altered the heart by drawing a break down the middle. I almost peed myself laughing when his sister told me this.

That story is hilarious, Lahna.

**Gimpyrks** · 20-12-09, 05:00 AM

Haha that is priceless XD

**lahnnabell** · 20-12-09, 10:03 AM

She even took a picture of it (You can take pictures in Farmville) and saved it in a photo album... Craziness.

She also messaged my boyfriend's sister saying, "Just because your brother broke up with me doesn't mean we can't still be facebook friends!" Grasping at straws much? We eventually took to calling her the "Emotional Monster" or "EM" for short due to her incessantly texting him sappy messages that begged for him to come back. After a month or so it tapered off.

**MVPlaya** · 20-12-09, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by lahnnabell

He probably thought the invitation was lame. Really, girl? Farmville? That's the most vague "I sort of like you" message I've ever heard of. He's probably confused.

More likely he just assumed your Facebook account is auto-spamming invites for games no one cares about and he clicked either Reject or Ignore All Future Requests from this User.

It is the stupidest come on I've ever heard of. Luckily, it is so lame and so much like spam that he won't even notice.

Look, playing hard to get, the only time it works, is, roughly:

"You're cute, and you have a shot, but you're gonna have to try harder than that."

You need to flirt back, then you need to make him chase, and when he gives up you flirt back a little bit, then he chases some more. Same thing in reverse with girls.

Ignoring someone does not make you more attractive. You ignore 99% of people you cross on a daily basis, you are not attracting 99% of people on a daily basis (unless you are that smoking hot). Playing hard to get is giving a guy incentive to chase, then making him chase. Not assuming that by doing nothing you've somehow done something.

**NeoSeminole** · 20-12-09, 11:20 AM

Only-virgins says:

"I'm 27 and I still feel like I am surrounded by them."

daaamn, you're old. I know what I'm getting you for Christmas.

I kid, I kid. I'm not far behind you (25 yrs old) =]

**IndiReloaded** · 20-12-09, 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by Goldi

Hallo All,

I know this guy from the french course we take together. I gave him my facebook account. He is really funny and popular in the course.

I don't talk to him much in the course because there is no chance to.
He sent me some messages in facebook so I know he likes me.

Now the course has ended and he sent me a message on friday saying he wants to go out with me!!!

Actually I like him, but I think it is too early for him to ask me out. So I don't want to go, not to sound desperate and also don't want to lose him forever if I refused by saying I am busy.

Should I simply ignore the message, so I can make him chase me more, because anyhow we will meet after a month in another spanish course.

What Do you think?!! please help!

I think that if you like someone then you shouldn't play games with him. Or you will be disappointed when he gives up on you and dates a girl who is lower maintenance.

**lecasanova** · 20-12-09, 12:43 PM

heh ignore all those critical comments, i believe you should just accept his invitation to go out. every relationship should start off with mutual respect, don't play hard to get. You can play hard to get in the relationship, but not before it even started!

Yours truly,
le Casanova

**Goldi** · 20-12-09, 10:09 PM

I can't answer his message now, it is too late it is almost 10 days.
Also, if he really likes me, he will ask me again and if he doesn't really care about me he will move on.

So I will wait and see.

What do you think again?!!

**vashti** · 20-12-09, 10:16 PM

I think your little game is over. Don't be sad, though... there's always Farmville!

**qwertz** · 20-12-09, 10:54 PM

grow up you silly little girl

**Primo** · 21-12-09, 12:04 AM

Originally Posted by IndiReloaded

I think that if you like someone then you shouldn't play games with him.

Rest assured, Goldi will get one of those games played on her one day

**CocoChanel** · 21-12-09, 05:06 AM

LOL! Yall are too funny. This entire page had me going.

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