this is a wee bit complicated, so please bear with me.
i was seeing this man in california until i moved to the east coast (dc) for grad school. all in all, we saw each other on and off for 8 months until new year's eve when we broke things off for good. this happened when i went back to california to visit over winter break. three days later i got on craigslist to find a buddy to explore some museums around the city, strictly platonic. i didn't expect to meet someone i was interested in besides good conversation. this new guy and i hit it off nicely on our first meeting, said goodbye and parted ways. he struck a chord in me, however, and i realized i was attracted to him.
anyway, he ended up asking me out again, which turned into a one night stand. he knew i was only in town for a short while, plus he himself is moving to new york city at the end of the month. we ended up seeing each other one more time the next night (another one night stand), which was the night before i flew out back to the east coast. but that last night he started asking me how apart dc and nyc was. i think he wants to see me again...but i ended up fessing up that i just broke up with someone. i think it surprised him. i'm glad i was honest, but am worried i may have sent him running.
at the same time, i feel like i used him because i enjoyed the attention he gave me during the rebound period, but then again, he might've only been interested in the physical aspect of it too.
now i'm feeling more attached and yet so bewildered by my whole trip. he said he'd be in touch, wished me a nice trip, and that the east coast awaits us both. do you think it's wise for me to actually expect him to give me a call or something??
thanks for your advice in advance!!