She is out with another guy...

[castingstones]

Stones, best thing to do is sever all contact, change your phone number and email and go on that trip or another, asap.

She's not "working herself out". She's working the field, so stuff her.

Like another said, she'll probably try to contact you again.

Take that option away from her.

You have the power and she is weak, remember that.

Do not talk to her if she arrives at your doorstep. Do not discuss her amongst mutual friends.

She has ceased to exist... persona non grata.

Thanks Doc