What To Do....Never Easy Is It?

**vashti** · 03-02-10, 06:05 AM

OMG, I want to nominate you for the most annoying creepy stalker poster of the year. You are the kind of guy that makes girls want to carry a stun gun in their purse.

Please! just stop.

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 06:06 AM

True but if it was the girl i really liked texting me 15 times a day then yeah i would be happy andn ot find her annoying and would love it.
Would prefer a bird to text me first instead of me texting her

**girl68** · 03-02-10, 06:19 AM

I would agree your problem is that: SHE WASN'T!

This will hit home I'm sure: clingy is when one person likes the other more... and it shows. Clingy will never happen when both parties are on equal footing (as another poster puts it).

You know, after 4 pages you'd THINK you'd get it... but I don't think you get it at all.

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 03:36 PM

I do get it, just its hard when your led on.

**TheWizard** · 03-02-10, 04:07 PM

Originally Posted by BarmyArmy

True but if it was the girl i really liked texting me 15 times a day then yeah i would be happy andn ot find her annoying and would love it.
Would prefer a bird to text me first instead of me texting her

Oh we're trying to date animals? The play on words is awesome here because in this case we can make a perfect analogy!

Yuo saw a pretty bird, you had a loafof bread. She was interested, but as you moved too quick and tried to grab her she saw through your guise and knew what you were after and flew off.

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 04:35 PM

So i was after a nice girl to date, and what she dont want that....she def dont wanna just shag around it werent like that.
She was telling me i would be perfect etc proper led on

**Lulu** · 03-02-10, 07:32 PM

Yeah- you scared her off. Learn the lesson and move on...

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 08:22 PM

Lesson learnt.
She said she would still wanna do something. Like go cinema or dinner etc
So was thinking maybe next step, give her a text or phone call out of the blue over the weekend maybe, see how she is and what shes been up to etc.
What should i do or approach this matter?
Thanks

**sookie6** · 03-02-10, 08:38 PM

Barmy...you know what?
I really like you. For all your clinginess and pushiness on this issue you certainly win the price for persistence and for the 'If I believe in it, then it will happen' attitude.

Are you a sagitarius by any chance?

Anyway since you're not following our tips here and there just do as you think.

I am sure we'll get some great follow-up on this!

I always root for the underdog...you might be winning the girl over against all odds!

So yes keep us posted!

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 09:18 PM

Lol im not im a Pisce's.

Yes, when i want something wether alloy wheels for my car, TV, a girl i liek to have the best.

Im not ingoring the advice im going to back off which I have. Last time we spoke she said still wants do something but shes busy this week,
So im thinking maybe you know still be nice person that I am and sometime give her a text or call just see hows shes doing and see if she
wants to go out.

Lisa also said not lookign for relationship or any tie downs but were meet as mates and if things change they change.
So what you honestly reckon......forget abotu her completley and move on?
I mean i honestly dont even mind if nothing happens, just to go out to cinema, dinner or round a girls house is good,
as i dont have many girl mates something different.

**SirWagginston** · 03-02-10, 09:32 PM

She's either stupid, or she's a whore. Or a stupid whore. You shouldn't sit on a guy's lap for two hours if he's as needy as you unless you're positive that you two will connect. Obviously, she either was too stupid to know whether or not you were initially connecting, or too much wanting to sit on someone's lap to care.

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 10:35 PM

Haha true.

She was holding my hand all night in the club, when we went out for a smoke, hugging me and kissing me, slowly.

It felt like we connected when we kissed, as it werent a drunken game of lose your tounge in each others mouths, it was how can i say it right..... romantic....passionate??
You know hands on each others faces, really deep it felt.

Was cold out and i was sitting on a concrete block, she wanted sit down and keep warm so she sat on my lap for half hour cuddling up and kissing.

**girl68** · 03-02-10, 11:10 PM

Originally Posted by BarmyArmy

I do get it, just its hard when your led on.

You were not led on. She did like you until you began crazy clingy man.

I've done this too. I thought I met this awesome guy in the club. We flirted, held hands, made out. It was great. He started calling. He started texting. He wouldn't leave me the hell alone. Needless to say it was much to overwhelming considering he didn't know not one thing about me. I was terrified of this stalker and ran. He got the clue about 3 weeks down the road.

**BarmyArmy** · 03-02-10, 11:18 PM

Yeahh i hear what you say Girl68.

So what should i do with regards to texting / calling her over next couple of weeks see hows shes doing and if shes still up for doing something?

Thats why i feel to be persistant as she may think that he does like me and has chilled out and go out once and if she has another giggle,
and go out again perhaps things like she said could become different, if we play it like mates at first.
So when and what should i say to her?

**girl68** · 03-02-10, 11:20 PM

Absolutely nothing.

Remember when she claimed she wanted to see you again? Yeah, I know you do. You're going insane just thinking about it. If she *actually* wants to, she will call you. If she said that just to shut you up she will not. If YOU call her instead she will pull the same bullshit, tell the same lie to shut you up yet again and you'll be here wondering the same thing in 2 weeks.

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