I'm new to this forum and am in need of some advice. I am 25y/o and have been with my fiance for 9yrs now. We are high school sweethearts and have a wonderful relationship. We live in Florida and he may be getting a job in Salt Lake City, Utah. This is a great opportunity for him, I just don't know if I can move due to my mother's state of health. My mom has metastatic breast cancer and has to do chemotherapy and I want to stay close to her. I don't want to move to SLC with him and regret it. They both mean the world to me and I feel torn b/c of this situation. The job market where we live now in Florida is not great, I've been looking for a job for the last month and cannot find one here. I'm also planning on going back to school for my masters and I need to know where I'm going to live, so that I can apply to potential schools.
He doesn't want to have a long distance relationship and says that he'll give me until next January to move with him and if I don't then he will have to move on. I can't put my life on hold, I need to get back into school and if I start a program down here in Florida, I will have to finish it before moving to SLC, which will take about 2yrs to finish.
I am in some need of advice regarding my situation. I feel torn and can't decide...I want to make the best decision and I don't want to regret it in the future. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!