I have been hanging out with this girl since november and we get along quite well! We also have many things in common. I take things slow with her because i do not want it to make myself look too desperate. We both are busy people, therefore sometimes we can't hang out every week, but when we do we have a lot of fun and i try to do something different each time we go out. The last time we went out( 1 1/2 weeks ago) we had coffee, before we arrived at the coffee shop she flirted with me in the car for the first time. She complimented on how good i was smelling with the cologne i had on. Then when we had coffee, we ended up having an awesome conversation and she seemed really into me. i can't explain it very well but at one point she was leaning over the table with both hands holding up her chin, if you get what i mean. She was like that for a while i was really surprised by it. We were suppose to hang out last week but she was busy with some stuff with her girlfriends and she had work too, so thats totally fine, then she was like definently next week(this week). SO i was thinking well next week on monday(this past monday) i should just ask her out for valentines since its on the weekend of this week. But unfortunenatly, she said that her and the girls were gonna do something special for valentines and i believe she mentioned something about a birthday as well she said thank you tho with a kind voice. Ever since that phone conversation i haven't called her but the fact is i would really like to go out with her on valentines because i really do like her, she has impressed me with her maturity and other things on numerous occasions. Im just trying to figure out how i can get her to like me, or maybe she already does i dunno. she has told me before christmas that she's not looking for a relationship but what is it do i have to do to make it work. Please help, thanks for reading!!