Hi, you may all know me from posts such as (sound like the guy from the simpsons), but really I have posted before, my latest being "Part 2 The Biggest Brain **** Ever".
I am proud to say I am starting to feel better, and after my last conversation with him - its made me dislike him enough to go - definately was wrong. But for my future love life's sake, please tell me what is going on in this man's head. I would appreciate your comments.
So you know my history, i was waiting for him to call it off after his "i do not know what I want etc etc" and you all know we do not live in the same town. So I cannot see him.
I finally answered his call, as he texted me and wanted to talk. I thought, great he is going to tell me he is prepared to change and I would say, do it on your own and prove it after a few months. But noooo he was a jackass, talking about how women flirt with him then on and on about not knowing what he wanted. Boring!!!!!!! heard it before, it gave me the guts to say "hey buddy enough i cannot take this crap anymore, break it off or... and before I could say "or I will" he said "I knew it would come to this soon, i guess it has to be over". Great, so I say goodbye and hang up.
Next day, I get "Miss you".
What the ****?
Then Valentines Day, i get, Happy Valentines Day, love you.
Oh great, I am starting to dislike you.
We talk again ( took his call because I am confused now) - he talks about general things, as if nothing is happening, then starts with the flirting. While I am on the phone and he is in the store he tells me two women were flirting with him, and I heard one giggling behind the checkout, this guy is ****ed up! one girl had said to him, excuse me I nearly ran over your toes with the trolley (I heard it she was NOT flirting with him) and the other was a giggly 17 year old (he told me) and she was just a young girl. Man this guy has to hurt me. (maybe he does not even know he is). Then outside he goes on and on about a program he saw on russian brides and how he feels some are really looking for happiness, and how all the men were ugly and geeky who had flown over to see them and the girls loved them. (he has said this before, he is a very good looking man and its almost like he is jealous of them guys). Weirdo!!!!!!!!! so why the **** should I have to listen about all the girl bullshit?
What is going on in his head?
Then he ends the conversation with Love you talk to you tomorrow.
I hung up with my mouth hung open - what the hell was that?
If he finally called it off why text me, talk to me, tell me love you miss you and make a point of Valentines day.
Unfortunately he received a card i had sent him some 14 days ago in the mail, and I said love you in it. (but that was two weeks ago when I did - not after this shit) so I got the text, "the card was nice, thank you. Miss you.
As usually two more days passed I have not heard from him and I am NOT contacting him, it has been him all along.
Pleaseeeeeeeee tell me what this behavior is?