i have been posting in broken heart forum about my recent breakup, but now i am just trying to move and get on my life. Its hard to do when i don't have much friends and family, so i am staying busy with anything so i wont go crazy. My concern is that i got hurt i am afraid i will not be the same person to another. I am trying to raise my self-esteem and not blame my self for the split, but i keep thinking will i be afraid to commit again and give my self to another i am just scared will mean and put up a guard i just want to know what people think about this feeling.