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    Im in love with a 3-4 years younger than me. . nid help badly :(

    hii
    im inlove with a girl hus 3-4 years younger than me.. right now im 19 years old. .
    its unexpectable, its just that she came unexpectbly. .
    we were in badminton team, at first time i saw her, im just amaze with her beauty
    but i turned my attention out of her because I know its not right. .
    as trainings goes by, I cant help to stare at her coz shes the exact ideal girl for me
    a bit of boish type, excellent badminton player, beauty, and the attitude. .
    then one time, were in NCAA tournament, I saw her watching those players alone
    so what did i do? i approach her and talk with her. .shes so very friendly, kinda sweet that she even invite me to go and have a lunch
    but ofcourse its not that she likes me too, its just that its in her nature to be friendly if you know what i mean. .
    we talked about lot of things and her background story in badminton, shes very open even im just her new friend, very comfortble talking with her. .
    and there it goes, since that day we became friends. . and I know theres no any other malicious feelings or what to her, its just im like her elder brother. .
    so this is my problem, since the day that i saw her, i already admire her, and till now, i think im inlove with her. .
    Ive been trying to turn my mind away from her but i just cant. .
    what should I do?
    Im about to ask her out, but what if she rejected me?
    should i go for this girl and follow my feelings
    or just turn away from her and hurt my own feelings?????
    please help.. . .than you very much
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    She's simply too young for you. Try to turn your mind away from her.
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    Damn. Could you read that, giga? Impressive.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    dont do it man im 16 and fell in love with a girl who was JUST 2 years younger then me and she almost destroyed my entire life by trying to accuse me of statory it not only ripped my heart out but it made me hate my self and make my self susipicous of everyone around me and every girl, she might seem nice but deep down she could be a very mean and cold person, dont trust your feelings to much when i first started dating this girl i thought 100 % in my heart,mind,gutt, and soul that i loved this girl and she ripped me down. my advice is be very carefull im not sure if you already have your mind made up on seeing this girl or not but if you do be VERY CAREFULL

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    advice advice advice

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    Don't, it's not worth the trouble...trust me.

    Besides, she's still too young to have a firm grasp on anything.
    (I just realized that's a sexual innuendo...LOL)

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    Walk away. Just walk away. That girl is a walking lawsuit if you bonk her and then she regrets it. Save yourself a court appearance and walk away.

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    Just a friend first. Wait until the right time to express your feelings to her.

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    forbidden fruit!

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