I wouldn't do the "peace out have a good life and have a fun vacation with your new bf" email. It would feel great but make you look like she still has the power over you and you are just too hurt without her. I agree with, Cmac, she doesn't need to know anything more than you've already told her. Not her business anymore.
If it feels better just phase her out. Do the no contact thing but don't tell her why. You don't owe her an explantion, she didn't give you one when she broke up.
Go out with your friends. You don't have to be intent on falling in love but meet new girls, flirt. Have fun. Life is too short to wait around for someone else when its just not there anymore.
Last edited by QueenofCorona; 24-03-10 at 06:03 AM.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?