Ftm I know that what I said was unkind but I stand by it.
When I said that I would not date you I didn't mean it as in 'I am too good for you'.
What I meant is that we ought to be in relationships with people who not only love us but also help us better ourselves.
Do not let anyone treat you like she has done since she slept with the other man. If I cheated on someone and that person forgave me and even walked me through it like you seem to have done I would not respect him because it means there's no boundaries to what is allowed.
Now you might want an open relationship, which is valid if it's established.
I also want to assure you that I have read ALL your posts (I just didn't read all the other posters).