Originally Posted by
genesys4
Urrmm, I beg to differ on your statements. If you mean "needy" in a sense that I buy flowers for her, call her all the times and do all the nice things to her, I never did those things.
I call her like once every 3 to 4 weeks ( at most), never paid for her meals (going dutch) and never ever bought any flower for her. The only thing I bought for her was a keychain, even that was for her birthday present.
Yes, sometimes she 'tested' (flirtly perhaps) me to buy her dinner and all, but I never give in to those demands. And mostly, I spend my weekends with other girl friends of mine ...if that's what it meant by not being clingy. So, how is it that I'm "needy"? Yes, I'm not her bf but I'd like her to be my gf - by not showing this wussy, kiss-a@# behavior.
As I mentioned previously, how can I not be too much of a 'player' so that she can think that I'm serious with her?