I had a fight with my girl, and shw wants to break up.. I don want this to happen????

[jugalrockz]

Hey Guys,

Im in real need of advice. im so messed up and confused. My girlfriend n i, we never ve fights.. But we had continues fight for a week recently. She wants to break up bcoz of that. To stop this from happenin. i ve made a serious mess. I called up her mom,bro n friend to convince and to tell her how we ve been for past 3yrs... Everyone r shocked in the family, when they heard about our break up. She is angry that i called up others to know the prob. She is rite that i must not ve included anyone. But she was not attendin my call n din want her to leave me.. That really made confused n restless.
Now she is leavin out of station for her studies. i ve fear that she might forget for 3yr relationship n forget me. I want her to understand me, forgive for this one last rime n take me back..
PLZ HELP ME.....

[bloodtippedrose]

I think she made a fight over nothing on purpose because she was leaving and wanted to be single. I had a 2 yr relationship that my bf told me he wanted to break up out of NO WHERE. I was so confused but later learned he was trying to break up with me cuz he had a crush on a girl he worked with.

[jugalrockz]

She tells that, all these days she is been hidin things from me.. But as far as i ve seen, she has everytime done things to make sure that im happy.. She has told me everything.. N she is not a person to get along with anyone.. If something is stuck in her mind it takes time for her to get out of her mind..

[OCEANNE]

You seem to really love her seriously and she must be a really great girl for that. Prolly there's something that's been bothering her in your relationship and you must've missed her point and she wants you to realize that. If it's still possible for you to really talk about the issue, without fighting then initiate it ASAP before things will get bigger and would be harder to fix. Unless the issue here is a 3rd party on her part, it will be a very different thing and I really hope that's not the case.