Originally Posted by
Car Chick
Thus the reason I don't say his age. Every post from here on out will have his age. *sigh*, I guess I won't be getting any help then.
Please understand that age is very important... You cannot blame them for making a big deal out of the AGE GAP BECAUSE IT'S EFFING HUGE.
Look here, my sister is 22 and dated for 2 years with her boyfriend which is 29, financially stable and definitely marriage material, but she's starting to think she's not ready to commit even when he is. and that' a 7 year difference and what is your age difference? THE DUDE MORE THAN TWICE YOUR AGE....
You're both from different decades, both obviously have different traditions and perspectives. I don't believe what you're doing is the right thing to do, I don't blame the family disapprovals.
I want you to seriously reconsider this... you're young and have much to learn... he's old and he shouldn't be dating anyone under the age of 35 at his age.
"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing."
-- Mignon McLaughlin