Im interested in her, but not the other way around.

[SwineFlew]

Well first off I have know this girl for around half a year. When we first met we quickly started talking to each other ALOT. Thing was, she had a boyfriend, but we still talked all the time. Her boyfriend was... well an ass, and she would tell me all her problems, I would listen and sympathize and even clued her in that I was interested, and she was too but she was trying to be loyal to her boyfriend. Well I stayed close to her for several months and finally my wait ended (not to sound like I just trying to get in her pants or anything, I wasn't, but I really wanted to be more than friends), she broke up with her boyfriend after he cheated on her the second time. Here is where im not sure what went wrong. After the breakup she kinda stopped talking to me. Before she would always text me and call me, but then she stopped doing so, so I would call or text her and the conversations would be real brief. Now we barely talk unless I text her and then the conversation only lasts for a few minutes. What do I do? I want to be her boyfriend but even thats not as important as me just wanting to be her friend again.

[Alvy]

Find someone who's a little less crazy, a lot more stable, and who's not going through a break up period/phase.

[SwineFlew]

Find someone who's a little less crazy, a lot more stable, and who's not going through a break up period/phase.

I dont want anyone else. The point is I like her. She's not crazy, im just wanting to know how to get her talking to me again.

[Alvy]

There's no way you can 'get' her to talk to you. She either will or won't. Trying to make her talk will drive her away even more. Give her space and time. Maybe 2 - 3 weeks. Or longer. Depends a lot on her and how she handles it.

[Cbrider]

You were a shoulder to lean on and an out in her less than stellar relationship. Now that she has moved on, your role in her day to day life isn't as necessary.

There is really no kinder way for me to explain that. Its just one of those things in life you have to accept and deal with.

How old are you, high school?

[Cloud206]

Was it an online friendship ?Or you know her in reality?

[SwineFlew]

Was it an online friendship ?Or you know her in reality?

In reality.

How old are you, high school?

Just got out of high school this year.

[girl68]

CBrider is right, she doesn't really have a need for you anymore.

[Cbrider]

Just got out of high school this year.

Hang in there and just forget about it. That age is a rough spot, everyone is trying to figure out who they are and what they want. People get yanked all over and emotionally tormented by each other because no one really knows what they are looking for. It's uphill from that age from an emotional/decision standpoint.