Again, very amusing...and wrong, too. Actually, I get some of the highest evaluations (from colleagues and students) in my teaching unit.
What they learn is that education is about ideas...it is not about me and is it not about them, as individuals. Therefore, your "relate to your students" nonsense is pure nonsense. I'm not interested in them as individuals. I'm not their mommy or daddy. That's another thing that is wrong with US education today...we're trained (wrongly) to evaluate them from the standpoint of them as unique individuals. Did they do well, based on our assessment of their capacity? Therefore, an "A" for Billy who accidentally overdosed and fried his brain in 8th grade, but a "B" for staightlaced Sally who is a 25 year old virgin who just studies and hasn't ruined her mind or body.
That whole "relate to your students" stuff is another myth in modern US education. Guess what? It ain't a rendition of the "The Miracle Worker" starring Helen Keller. I'm not a miracle worker and would never want to be one, either. Formal education is a sorting machine. It is a place of great opportunity. My students who are truly interested in learning, I will give more than the extra mile. They work on grants with me, publish with me (as teenagers), and I help them get jobs too. But, the numbskulls...hey, I am not interested in "relating" to them. That's bullshit. They should be where they are...in their own personal Hell.
Again, relate this back to the US and its future. We, as a nation, do not have time or money to "relate" to every student as an individual. Individuals have their own goals and priorities and that's great. But, there is a part of a NATION that relates to the collective and its aggregate capacities...and that's been lost as we focus on each and every little "faux genius" and his/her capacity to look out for their own selves--apparently, based on the posts here, at the expense of all others.










