gutted!

[bing]

i met this beautiful most amazing girl and messed everything up the first 2 weeks of the relationship was amazing and i have proper fallen for her but then we went away together with a load of mates and she was in a club talking to another bloke which is like her because shes so happy and outgoing and will talk to anyone, she wasnt doing anything wrong and i had a moan at her i had a drink and dont even know why i done it i guess it was because i didnt trust her at that time , anyways after having a massive talk about it the next day she said before this happened she was proper falling head over heels for me but each time ive upset her its knocked a bit of that off , we decided to carry on and try and make a go of the relationship but it just wasnt the same as before i could tell she had lost alot of feelings for me then the other day she ended it i was so so gutted and we had a huge! conversation which i wish we had at the start of the relationship! i was stupid to even worry about trusting her shes the most honest person i know and i just feel shes perfect for me ... if i knew her then how i know her know things would be alot alot different! we were together a month in total and im gutted ive lost her i have really fallen for her and i just wish there was something i could do to get her back she did say you never know sometime in the future my feelings might come back for you , just gotta take each day as it comes , ive messed up majorly! she means so much to me , wish i could start over again!
Really wanna do something thats gonna make her feel amazing and really special and win her back does anybody have any ideas?

[Alvy]

Well she lost all feelings for you. That's pretty much a one way street for most women. Or you could take her on a Caribbean cruise.

[bing]

how do you mean pretty much a one way street ? id do anything to get her back and i mean anything ive never had this feeling with anyone else ive been with and they were long relationships! just want her in my arms again start a fresh!

[Alvy]

By one way, I mean once they start to lose any 'feelings' for you, trying to do anything to get her to feel for you in the same way again will probably just drive her away even more. But, everyone's different, some are touched by the amount of effort, others are repulsed. She said her feelings for you might return, but that just sounds like her way of letting you down gently.

[bing]

That's what I thought , I just can't stop thinking about her she's so unique and I know it sounds stupid because it was only a month , but I feel more for her than I did previous girlfriends that were long term , I'm so gutted and just love everything about her ,now I know her properly and trust her so much! I feel that thngs could be perfect if we tried again .... I was just thinking if I do something amazing for her she might get them feelings back but then I might push her away more ... arggh my heads so messes up someone. help me please!