Farewell Sex?

[IndiReloaded]

Regardless of the others who are only now offering...I've had several months of making out with an office maintenance worker. She wants to go further before I leave. At least she is sincere. She a bit older than me and fairly mature...I've seen her little office space that she has in the equipment room...she reads science textbooks and history journals on her breaks...totally self-taught.

Perhaps just with her before I leave

Treat her right, Cam. Like a queen. Don't make it cheap.

Ah hell, what am I saying? I know you won't.

...make the most of what you have. It is later than you think. (the rest you know, I'm sure)

[Gigabitch]

I just can't see you hooking up with a bunch of sluts, CAM. Ever.

[CAM]

I just can't see you hooking up with a bunch of sluts, CAM. Ever.

Thanks My track record since 2001....is that I don't do "hook ups." I think before that time, I was a young and foolish and lacked proper judgment. I agree with your assessment--I didn't spend the last decade in social penance just to throw away the lessons that I spent a long time learning. Nearly the whole time you've known me here on LF, I've been in social penance and learning lessons on LF--lots of valuable lessons.

[CAM]

Perhaps just kissing the office maintenance worker was enough--a sign of mild affection for one another in an office otherwise full of indifference.

[Gigabitch]

i think sleeping with her would be irresponsible. She's clearly more into you than you are into her. You don't want to hurt someone just to get laid.

[CAM]

i think sleeping with her would be irresponsible. She's clearly more into you than you are into her. You don't want to hurt someone just to get laid.

I agree. It won't happen because I'm already in the next phase of life...mentally, I'm miles away already.

[CAM]

It is more or less curiousity that makes some of the sexual possibilities interesting. Harkens back to my playboy days. In one case, the woman is a hot African-American woman. I've dated AA women--two of them. One of them was a single mom when I dated her. The other was just a single date--she asked me out and took me to a redneck bar just to watch the reactions! It was fun. I never got passed second base and always wondered what a homerun would be like. I got the sense that AA's were much more sensual and unhibiited than most white women. So, it is just a lingering thought in the back of the mind....