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    what are ways to cope when ur husbands at work?

    i was used to kissing him always but now hes at work everyday, i really want him back, whats your advice?

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    Phone him at work. Show up at his work place and just stand outside his window waving.

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    No wonder men think women are crazy.

    Leave him alone at work. Do you really think you'd be happier if he were unemployed?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Do you work OP? If not, get a job of your own.

    I found many ways and to occupy myself and when my hubby would be at work. Housework, washing and ironing, shopping, read magazines, go and visit my family/friends, plan evening meals...you get the picture?

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    You could get a job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hello1 View Post
    Phone him at work. Show up at his work place and just stand outside his window waving.
    If they have a pet rabbit, I guess she could try boiling it and to get some much needed attention.

    Poor bloke, bet he doesn't even go to the bog without her being present. Kissy Kissy, mwah, mwah...haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by hello1 View Post
    Phone him at work. Show up at his work place and just stand outside his window waving.
    I phone.

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    No wonder men think women are crazy.

    Leave him alone at work. Do you really think you'd be happier if he were unemployed?
    No, why do you ask that?

    Quote Originally Posted by xxazurexx View Post
    Do you work OP? If not, get a job of your own.

    I found many ways and to occupy myself and when my hubby would be at work. Housework, washing and ironing, shopping, read magazines, go and visit my family/friends, plan evening meals...you get the picture?
    My friends are at work I am doing housework but its too easy and quick.

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    You could get a job.
    He said not to.

    Quote Originally Posted by xxazurexx View Post
    If they have a pet rabbit, I guess she could try boiling it and to get some much needed attention.

    Poor bloke, bet he doesn't even go to the bog without her being present. Kissy Kissy, mwah, mwah...haha
    Not quite but we love being in bed whenever he is home (6pm-6am) lol

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    Why did he tell you not to get a job? And why are you listening to him? You deserve to have a source of happiness outside of him. He is not the only facet of your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lahnnabell View Post
    Why did he tell you not to get a job? And why are you listening to him? You deserve to have a source of happiness outside of him. He is not the only facet of your life.
    He said to join the tennis club but its kind of awkward cos the coach is flirty. I demanded to get a job but he gets angry and says no wife of his will do that, his mum didnt work either i have no chance anyway no qualification.

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    It's not good to be so dependent on someone else. What about going to school?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lottygirler View Post
    He said to join the tennis club but its kind of awkward cos the coach is flirty. I demanded to get a job but he gets angry and says no wife of his will do that, his mum didnt work either i have no chance anyway no qualification.
    When do you live? In the 15th century??

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    Quote Originally Posted by lahnnabell View Post
    It's not good to be so dependent on someone else. What about going to school?
    Don't like it, but maybe a course in something, i'll discuss it! My friends a massage therapist she did this course, its possible and looks easy (I hope).

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    Quote Originally Posted by the_robot View Post
    When do you live? In the 15th century??
    He's just really caring about doing everything. I have no qualification anyways. Its so hard to get jobs even with them!

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    So, you're gonna let your husband run your life for you? You don't want to get a job, you don't like school, can't withstand the flirtatious advances of some tennis instructor... If I blow on you from here, you'll probably fall over too.

    Why are you allowing someone else to run your life like this? You just want to sit at home and be catered to, but now you're bored because there is no one around to entertain you? You can either take some responsibility for your life, and do something, or you can come here and whine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lottygirler View Post
    He's just really caring about doing everything. I have no qualification anyways. Its so hard to get jobs even with them!
    If he really cared for you, he'd ask you to get yourself ready for the real world. I wouldn't even allow a friend to get wasted like that.

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