Okay. I had a friendship that was growing rapidly and becoming as strong as or maybe even stronger than that of my closest friends. But I began to feel more. I wasn't going to act out of fear of losing that incredible friendship, but then she told me she thought she felt something for me. So a couple of days later we decided to get together... it only lasted a couple of weeks. We started arguing literally every time we spoke. So after one massive argument, we decided we couldn't recover our friendship and I made no effort to contact her. The just a couple of weeks later i start getting a text, or a message on msn once or twice a week and I think maybe this is my chance to recover that friendship. But then after a week of almost being how we used to be (as friends!) she just goes distant. She answers my texts or messages with one word answers and doesn't make an effort to start conversation. Apparently now that I've tried my best to get to the bottom of it... and I have been told she just had a lot on her mind... but she acted fine with other people. And when I ask if I have done something wrong and I just get 'No' and thats it... naturally I assume I HAVE in fact done something wrong. I go behind her back and try to ask one of her friends if I have done anything wrong out of sheer desperation to get my friend back. She finds out, gets annoyed with me for going behind her back. We haven't spoken in over a week.
I really want my best friend back but I can't take the hurt of all this messing about. She has a new boyfriend and I am fine with it, really. I'm happy for her. I still feel something for her, but all I care about is that we stay friends. I really do miss her... what can I do?