I'm a terrible boyfriend

[RdHrshyKss]

EXACTLY! like i said, setting it up is a bitch. i must have cursed a million times setting mine up. but once it's set up, it's all pure maintenance...you only need to add your expenses for that day and everything after that will just fix itself (if you have formulas set up). i was able to limit my spending throughout the year in order to enjoy a sweet ass vacation in aruba last year. this year was vegas and poland. now i have to save up for a car. i have a 98 honda accord (that i will be extremely sad to part with because it is the best car in the world) but my expenses are tight too and i wont' be able to afford crazy expensive maintenance/repairs on it a year or two from now. reserve an afternoon to plug in all your paychecks into your spreadsheet for a year from now, all your bills etc. and then section off money for your car and just use that as motivation to cut down on spending. i think everyone is in a similar boat. with today's economy, everyone is sort of forced to cut down on spending. you're not alone.

[Enigmos]

Hmm, if she has stuck with you all this time, there must be something about you that is worthwhile! It seems like you have self-esteem issues, as evidenced by your self medication via pot, but you need to focus on your own positive aspects to get you through the mental hole you have dug for yourself.

Wanting to break up just because you don't think you're good enough means you'll continue to do this in your lifetime. Don't you want to be happy, or at least at peace with yourself?

[kitkitkitty]

wait aren't you also having problems with your girl talking to guys on the internet and saying to you that she's gotten over the fact that she can't count on you?
well.....

[LailaK]

I agree with Giga. Don't be retarded and don't break up just pull yourself together.

Furthermore, your gf is not a child. If she needs to get to work she needs to learn to drive a car. If she really doesn't want to she needs to ride a bike like you do or learn to take public transportation. That's what adults do.

[lovefool87]

You aren't going to get a decent job if you continue to smoke pot.

[RdHrshyKss]

You aren't going to get a decent job if you continue to smoke pot.

not entirely true, but under his circumstances...smoking pot is not helping him with his depression

[lovefool87]

Well yeah, if you want an entry-level for the rest of your life. But I live in tx, not California. Is it safe to say Cali is more lax about pot?

[RdHrshyKss]

there are plenty of jobs that do not require drug tests...and they aren't all entry level jobs. even so, a pot smoker can just quit smoking for a few weeks, take some natural remedies, come up clean on their test and be fine. just because someone smokes pot doesn't mean that they are only able to do entry-level work, if that's what you are implying. i say all this assuming that the person is smart enough to not be high while on the job...that's a different story haha