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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    That's what I was getting at (see post above).

    It won't get better. He'll charm you and love you and all that jazz then he'll flip the f**k out on you and all you'll do is think about the good days you just had with him...

    He will not stop his abuse and it won't get better. Everyone here sees this...
    I do see it to girl 68. im aware and i know what to do already

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    You people just don't get it. If him telling his ex that angel is nothing to him and he really wants the ex instead is not bad enough to break up then why should a few little curse words change anything? She'll just continue waiting for something really bad to happen before she might think breaking up is a.... maybe.
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    also, have you ever considered that 'one day' he'll get physically abusive? want to hang around to find out?
    They called us a dead generation,
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    They left us alone in the maelstrom
    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    I would have ran screaming a long long time ago.

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    Thanks girls for the advices, you girls are right. I already took my decision. I will leave him , i will post news soon.
    Thanks a lot

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    Quote Originally Posted by angel2002 View Post
    Hi guys

    Here is the situation:

    He accuses me of things that ive never done to him and tell a bunch of nonsense thats not true. is it normal him talking to me like this?
    see the conversation:

    HIM: can't even ****ing not lie
    have fun ****ing lying whore
    you never ****ing lie and tell me you love me anymore and you never ****ing say my ****ing name again you ****ing bitch
    **** YOU
    ME: OK?

    Thanks for reading
    He's abusive and has insecurity issues.

    Dump him or your going to be one of those women who one day realize that they wasted years of their life with an obvious a-hole. You need to get over your emotional addiction to him. Theres alot of decent guys out there. Dont waste your life away. Your too good for that.
    You have a chance to "dodge the bullet" here. Seriously you should take and escape. Or you just end up digging yourself into a deeper hell.
    Last edited by Henry123; 18-08-10 at 08:54 AM.
    I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.

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    Good luck Angel. Do it someplace 'publicly private' so he can't freak out on you. Post an update when you can.
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    For Angel:

    I GOT FLOWERS TODAY

    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day;
    We had our first argument last night; And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt;
    I know that he is sorry and didn’t mean to say the things he said;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day;
    Last night he threw me into a wall and then started choking me;
    It seemed like a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares to find they aren’t real.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    And it wasn’t Valentine’s Day or any other special day;
    Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me;
    Make-up and long-sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and bruises this time;
    I couldn’t go to work today because I didn’t want anyone to know-but I know he’s sorry;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day;
    Last night he beat me again, and it was much worse than all of the other times;
    If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of the kids? What about money?
    I’m afraid of him, but I’m too scared and dependent to leave him! But he must be sorry;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today…Today was a very special day—it was the day of my funeral;
    Last night he finally killed me—I was beaten to death;
    If only I would have gathered the courage and strength to leave him;
    The women’s shelter could have helped me, but I didn’t ask for their help;
    So I got flowers today…for the last time.
    • • •

    Copyright 1992 c by Paulette Kelly
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    For Angel:

    I GOT FLOWERS TODAY

    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day;
    We had our first argument last night; And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt;
    I know that he is sorry and didn’t mean to say the things he said;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day;
    Last night he threw me into a wall and then started choking me;
    It seemed like a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares to find they aren’t real.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    And it wasn’t Valentine’s Day or any other special day;
    Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me;
    Make-up and long-sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and bruises this time;
    I couldn’t go to work today because I didn’t want anyone to know-but I know he’s sorry;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today!
    And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day;
    Last night he beat me again, and it was much worse than all of the other times;
    If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of the kids? What about money?
    I’m afraid of him, but I’m too scared and dependent to leave him! But he must be sorry;
    Because he sent me flowers today.
    • • •
    I got flowers today…Today was a very special day—it was the day of my funeral;
    Last night he finally killed me—I was beaten to death;
    If only I would have gathered the courage and strength to leave him;
    The women’s shelter could have helped me, but I didn’t ask for their help;
    So I got flowers today…for the last time.
    • • •

    Copyright 1992 c by Paulette Kelly
    After you told me you invented the joke. I thought you're gonna make something original
    He who laughs last, thinks the slowest

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    Quote Originally Posted by nerdy_guy View Post
    After you told me you invented the joke. I thought you're gonna make something original
    It would seem that Angel isn't aware of it, NG.
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    Sorry about that, should I delete my post to keep her in the dark then?
    He who laughs last, thinks the slowest

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    Quote Originally Posted by nerdy_guy View Post
    Sorry about that, should I delete my post to keep her in the dark then?
    She seems to need more than one viewing to register. I actually find the poem rather vulgar in its way. Can't hurt.
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    One of my friend's exes kept verbally abusing her. They were on and off a lot at that point and now they're off again. She told me that he apologized every time. And yet he kept doing it. Once you cross the line and say something hurtful, the line just get's smudged and eventually fades away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kapneb92 View Post
    She told me that he apologized every time
    and angel, it was YOU that forced HIM to apologise. he didn't even have the decency to do that.
    They called us a dead generation,
    They told us that we wouldn't survive
    They left us alone in the maelstrom
    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Henry123 View Post
    He's abusive and has insecurity issues.

    Dump him or your going to be one of those women who one day realize that they wasted years of their life with an obvious a-hole. You need to get over your emotional addiction to him. Theres alot of decent guys out there. Dont waste your life away. Your too good for that.
    You have a chance to "dodge the bullet" here. Seriously you should take and escape. Or you just end up digging yourself into a deeper hell.
    Thanks a lot All these posts are really nice and conforts me
    I agree with you entirely

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