You people just don't get it. If him telling his ex that angel is nothing to him and he really wants the ex instead is not bad enough to break up then why should a few little curse words change anything? She'll just continue waiting for something really bad to happen before she might think breaking up is a.... maybe.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
also, have you ever considered that 'one day' he'll get physically abusive? want to hang around to find out?
They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
I would have ran screaming a long long time ago.
Thanks girls for the advices, you girls are right. I already took my decision. I will leave him , i will post news soon.
Thanks a lot
He's abusive and has insecurity issues.
Dump him or your going to be one of those women who one day realize that they wasted years of their life with an obvious a-hole. You need to get over your emotional addiction to him. Theres alot of decent guys out there. Dont waste your life away. Your too good for that.
You have a chance to "dodge the bullet" here. Seriously you should take and escape. Or you just end up digging yourself into a deeper hell.
Last edited by Henry123; 18-08-10 at 08:54 AM.
I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.
Good luck Angel. Do it someplace 'publicly private' so he can't freak out on you. Post an update when you can.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
For Angel:
I GOT FLOWERS TODAY
• • •
I got flowers today!
It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day;
We had our first argument last night; And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt;
I know that he is sorry and didn’t mean to say the things he said;
Because he sent me flowers today.
• • •
I got flowers today!
It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day;
Last night he threw me into a wall and then started choking me;
It seemed like a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares to find they aren’t real.
• • •
I got flowers today!
And it wasn’t Valentine’s Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me;
Make-up and long-sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and bruises this time;
I couldn’t go to work today because I didn’t want anyone to know-but I know he’s sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.
• • •
I got flowers today!
And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me again, and it was much worse than all of the other times;
If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of the kids? What about money?
I’m afraid of him, but I’m too scared and dependent to leave him! But he must be sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.
• • •
I got flowers today…Today was a very special day—it was the day of my funeral;
Last night he finally killed me—I was beaten to death;
If only I would have gathered the courage and strength to leave him;
The women’s shelter could have helped me, but I didn’t ask for their help;
So I got flowers today…for the last time.
• • •
Copyright 1992 c by Paulette Kelly
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Sorry about that, should I delete my post to keep her in the dark then?
He who laughs last, thinks the slowest
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
One of my friend's exes kept verbally abusing her. They were on and off a lot at that point and now they're off again. She told me that he apologized every time. And yet he kept doing it. Once you cross the line and say something hurtful, the line just get's smudged and eventually fades away.
Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it's the moments that take your breath away.