Got the phone call I knew would come today. The boyfriend called to confirm what we talked about last night and is rather upset about my decision to stay. He's still happy about my promotion, but it sucks that it means that doing what's right for me at this time involves staying in SD. He knows why I am staying.
I have a history of letting my emotions get the better of me, but I've been very good about thinking logically and realistically about this. We're gonna sit down and talk in the next couple of days because I want to give him some time to process it all. And I would never ask him to stay just for me. He's wanted out of San Diego for so long now, and his growth is dependent upon his decision to leave. I'm prepared to do the distance, but I have to find out what he wants. I really don't want this to suck...