Boyfriend grinding with other girls

[kitkitkitty]

we had fun
at least everything is ok. and you know what to do if it ever actually happens.

[girl68]

I still think you're hooped. The whole point of that was to get to the boundry talk... you didn't as far as he knows he's got a free pass so long as he isn't screwing them.

[Piglet Pie]

I still think you're hooped. The whole point of that was to get to the boundry talk... you didn't as far as he knows he's got a free pass so long as he isn't screwing them.

Yes well I agree I should talk to him again about it.

I'm delaying though - atm he's waiting on his results and he's working a hell of a lot so he can afford uni. He's basically stressed and tired and I don't want to give him anything else to be stressed and tired about. It can wait a few days now that my mind isn't buzzing quite so much about it.

And he isn't like that.. I don't think he is interested in other girls.. I mean I worry and I was worried when I first posted but I worry about a lot of things that don't make sense. I think he just isn't very aware of how to be a textbook boyfriend, which is partly my fault because I don't help him because I tend to let him away with anything and blame myself. And then not tell him so he never knows

I am trying to do better on that front so in a way the outrage in this thread has helped

[kitkitkitty]

i'm so scared about results.

[girl68]

i'm so scared about results.

what are you talking about?

[VincenzoG91]

If you catch him grinding on girls, you can always grind your knee into his groin.

[kitkitkitty]

what are you talking about?

exam results for uni. angel's bf is waiting for the same ones as me i think.

[girl68]

interesting... if something is up and it's potentially a threat to the relationship I don't give a damn what exam marks are coming out he's sitting down and he's talking to me.

[Piglet Pie]

I think this thread is pretty much wrapped up.

I wish it could be deleted or something cause I kind of like this place.. but now there's a post history that leads back to the (outwardly reasonable) conclusion that my boyfriend's a jerk and I'm some kind of naive wishy washy gonna-get-cheated-on person :S

Ah well, thankyou for all of your posts guys!

[VincenzoG91]

my boyfriend's a jerk and I'm some kind of naive wishy washy gonna-get-cheated-on person

That's an excellent summary. I'm glad you put it in writing.

[kitkitkitty]

I wish it could be deleted or something

just get a new account. when i 1st joined there was some weird guy who got reported twice, got 3 or so new accounts and now seems to have disappeared. he was an idiot and told us who he was but you can have a whoooole new identity

[Jinxx]

all girls grind ther just embaressed to admit it.

[Raze]

Grinding with other girls is not okay when you're in a relationship. I would understand if you guys weren't in a relationship, but I would consider that a form of cheating. Grinding is almost like having sex with your clothes on. Am I wrong?

[VincenzoG91]

Grinding with other girls is not okay when you're in a relationship. I would understand if you guys weren't in a relationship, but I would consider that a form of cheating. Grinding is almost like having sex with your clothes on. Am I wrong?

You're right. Most people would obviously freak if they saw somebody grinding on an old person, a little kid or a dog, because the grinding has very obvious sexual connotations. Some guys even blow their wad when a stripper is grinding on their lap.

[vashti]

all girls grind ther just embaressed to admit it.

No, they don't. Only the girls who are looking for attention do it.