Is grinding cheating?

[Joker]

Would you classify the dance move 'grinding' as a form of cheating??

Like I personally do as I think its not far from dry sex but not sure if I'm alone in saying this...was talking to my ex recently (we're friends now so its fine) and she was saying how it is just a dance though she says some guy has ejaculated while she does it and kinda hinted she might of done it while I was dating her with a friend which made me feel uncomfortable

But am I dumb in thinking this?

[CocoChanel]

It's a sexual dance with intent to stimulate and tease the penis. It's an inappropriate dance to do if it is not with your bf/gf.

[MrNiceGuy]

Would you classify the dance move 'grinding' as a form of cheating??

Like I personally do as I think its not far from dry sex but not sure if I'm alone in saying this...was talking to my ex recently (we're friends now so its fine) and she was saying how it is just a dance though she says some guy has ejaculated while she does it and kinda hinted she might of done it while I was dating her with a friend which made me feel uncomfortable

But am I dumb in thinking this?

It is mentally cheating. Which is the same as physical.

[Joker]

It's a sexual dance with intent to stimulate and tease the penis. It's an inappropriate dance to do if it is not with your bf/gf.

Yeah I think this is how I feel maybe not cheating but definately inappropriate...

It is mentally cheating. Which is the same as physical.

I'd say it was more physical unless the mental intention was to cheat or stimulate (which it can be)


What do you think about people who are single doing it to fellow single people??

Personally, I don't like it but people have freedom to do what they want

[MrNiceGuy]

Yeah I think this is how I feel maybe not cheating but definately inappropriate...



I'd say it was more physical unless the mental intention was to cheat or stimulate (which it can be)


What do you think about people who are single doing it to fellow single people??

Personally, I don't like it but people have freedom to do what they want

You don't mentally cheat on someone. Freedom is not free to do anything.

Personally I don't care what you like, but in a committed relationship, you don't grind other peoples wives.

Not any women I would date long term.

[CocoChanel]

Sure... I mean if they are single people its cool if that their choice of dance. Personally I wouldn't do it because it's just raunchy and slutty. But if it were my man I would grind on him all night!

[Joker]

Yeah, I'm getting over the ex thing, if it happened then its in the past and i don't care...I'm off to university in september/october so I can never see her again if I so choose.

I'm happy I'm no longer with her so why should I care, it still botheres me a little but its no big deal...she was a terrible girlfriend anyway

[CocoChanel]

You probably feel a little jealous of what she is out there doing?
Blah... don't show her that you care.

[IndiReloaded]

Of course it is. Would you say French kissing isn't? Grinding (with contact) is much more than a kiss.

[Asip4u]

Exactly just move on and get a girl that will grind with only you. Do you know the song 'baby grind on me, relax your mind take your time with me'..good one for it..haha

Yeah, I'm getting over the ex thing, if it happened then its in the past and i don't care...I'm off to university in september/october so I can never see her again if I so choose.

I'm happy I'm no longer with her so why should I care, it still botheres me a little but its no big deal...she was a terrible girlfriend anyway

[Raze]

Of course it is. Would you say French kissing isn't? Grinding (with contact) is much more than a kiss.

I would say grinding would be almost like having sex except with clothes on.

[brightgirl]

It's a sexual dance with intent to stimulate and tease the penis. It's an inappropriate dance to do if it is not with your bf/gf.

absolutely, it is. Here, here! The question is not whether or not it's cheating, the question is whether or not you'll stand for your girlfriend teasing another man under the guise of "it's just a dance". If it doesn't bother you, then okay. But it'd bother me.

[Disillusioned]

I'm not cool with it and would tell her once how I felt. If it continued I'd do her a favor and dump her so she can do all the grinding she wants.

[Raze]

I'm not cool with it and would tell her once how I felt. If it continued I'd do her a favor and dump her so she can do all the grinding she wants.

Yeah, I get really upset when a girl I'm with is grinding with other guys. It's best to dump her.

[Glimmer Twin]

Here is my question for the ladies - how do you feel when some guy is grinding against you and you can obviously feel his errection against your side, ass or crotch? A friend of mine told me that it's called something when some guy is hard while grinding but I can't for the life of me remember what it's called!