Originally Posted by
RdHrshyKss
i had remained friendly with an ex of mine...we had been friends before we dated and we had a bunch of mutual friends so i wanted things to remain civil. i didn't talk to him often, in fact i hadn't talked to him in months...i was doing some research online and came across this song that reminded me of him and so i sent him the link in a facebook message (nothing romantic or anything...he was a rapper and i thought he'd appreciate it). low and behold, a couple months later i went to include him in an event invite and he was no longer my friend. it was really weird in my opinion. and i'm not one of those people that makes a big deal about facebook, facebook is really fake and people who rely on all that crap have some issues, but since we had been friends for so long, it felt like a slap in the face. the least he could have done is just message me back and say "i'm in a relationship right now and i think it would be best if we just cut ties". yeah, it would have stung a little, but i would have respected that.
so i think it would have been a lot more mature if she had just replied and told you that she needed to stop talking to you in order to move on. and as hard as it might be for you because you still have feelings for her, the best way to move on is to cut contact. this might be her only way of dealing with that.