Thanks for the replies... Boisdevie - Let us know how it goes.
She's become real distant lately, then she springs up and talks and is all over me like a rash. She said she feels as if i'm being distant, and i said i feel as if it is her, she said "i'm sorry just had a lot of things lately." I'm taking it slow, we both know how each other feel, so i guess time will see how it goes. I made a few moves, so has she, but like you said these things take time.
You's were right about there being more girls out there, i seen my ex the other day, and she's put some weight on, she was laughing in town, seen me and her jaw dropped, didn't even think to say hello, just continued walking by...